Friday 4 July 2014

QMobile Noir i5 Price






About :
QMobile Noir i5 Price in Pakistan, Spec & Reviews. QMobile Noir i5 is up in the market within very reasonable price, somehow the device holds good attractive feature that makes Noir i5 a complete mobile phone for your use. This device holds strong hardware side like its siblings, it runs Android 4.0 Operating System. It has 5 mega pixel back camera with auto focus detection and 2 mega pixel camera for selfies. This smart device is all come up with 2000 mAh battery. Average rating is 4.4 stars, based on 34 reviews


General:


2G Network SIM 1: 850 / 900 / 1800 / 1900, SIM 2: 850 / 900 / 1800 / 1900
3G Network WCDMA 900 / 2100
SIM Dual-Sim



Body:


Dimensions 138.5x71.5x9.5mm
Weight N/a


Display:

Type IPS LCD Screen
Size 4.7 Inches WVGA



Sound:

Alert types Downloadable, Polyphonic, MP3
Loudspeaker Yes
3.5mm jack Yes



Memory:

Card slot microSD card (supports up to 32GB)
Internal 4GB ROM, 512MB RAM


Data:

GPRS Yes
EDGE Yes
WLAN WLAN (Wi-Fi 802.11)
Bluetooth Yes
NFC
Infrared port No



Camera:

Primary 5 Mega Pixel
Features autofocus
Video Yes
Secondary 2 Mega Pixel


Features:


OS Android 4.0
CPU 1.3 GHZ Quad-Core
Sensors Light, Motion, Proximity, Magnetic
Messaging SMS(threaded view), MMS, Email, Push Mail, IM
Browser HTML
GPS GPS + A-GPS support
Colors Black, Yellow, Red, Orange



Battery:



2000 mAh
Stand-by
Talk time

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Thursday 3 July 2014

World Cup 2014: Algeria to donate $9m World Cup prize money to people of Gaza, because ‘they need it more than us’



Algeria to donate $9m World Cup prize money to people of Gaza, because ‘they need it more than us’


The Algerian national football team are to donate their entire World Cup prize fund to the embattled people of Gaza, it has been reported.
According to quotes attributed to Algeria’s star striker Islam Slimani, the team will give up all of the estimated $9 million (£5.25 million) they received as valiant losers in the round of 16
.
Though Slimani himself plays for Sporting Lisbon and is touted for an even bigger move this summer, the reported donation will be a greater sacrifice for members of the squad based at more modest clubs in Algeria, Tunisia, the lower French leagues and Watford.
Yet speaking at a reception in Algiers where the team returned to a hero's welcome yesterday, Slimani apparently said: “They need it more than us.” The announcement was reported by the Jordanian football writer Waleed Abu Nada as well as the Dutch daily newspaper Algemeen Dagblad.


he Algerian team had already won support from around the world for their gutsy and creative performances throughout the tournament against more favoured nations.
They reached the knockout stages for the first time their history when a second-half Slimani goal saw them go through against Russia – and at Russia’s expense.


And they were actually the better side for large parts of their second round match against giants Germany, only losing after extra time 2-1.
If reports of their donation to Gaza are true, it will see Algeria gain a whole new set of fans beyond football around the world. They were also the only African side to make it through past the group stages – and their apparent willingness to give away the prize money is in stark contrast to the reported behaviour of the Cameroon, Ghana and Nigeria teams.
But they may also face accusations of bringing politics to bear in the world of sport, as Argentina did when they were investigated by Fifa for showing a banner about the Falklands ahead of the tournament.
Algeria have traditionally been strong supporters of the Palestinian cause in the long-running  Middle East dispute with Israel centred on Gaza, and YouTube footage of the team’s open-top homecoming tour through Algiers yesterday showed at least one Palestinian flag draped from the bus by the players.

 The reported donation to the people of Gaza comes at a critical time in the conflict, as Israel’s prime minister Benjamin Netanyahu struggles to control a frenzied reaction to the murder of three Israeli hitch-hikers, which the country blames on Hamas.
Israel has begun sending troop reinforcements to its border with Gaza and begun intensifying air strikes, while more than a dozen Palestinian rockets struck southern Israel early this morning.

Wednesday 2 July 2014

The United States Had To Lose; They Didn't Have To Lose Valiantly



The United States had to lose; they had to go home. It was in the nature of things.
Soccer is strange, in that it isn't very strange at all. One would think that such a low-scoring game would lend itself to randomness, to the odd fairytale ending, to relatively shitty teams fluking their way into the history books. This doesn't happen.
In the end, soccer doesn't leave much room for hope. Quality always wins out, and nowhere is this more obvious than the World Cup. Every four years, 32 teams descend upon a nation to compete for the title of best team in the world. The tournaments, as we have already seen this year, appear crazy in the moment, close up. But when the smoke clears, the best teams in the world always emerge unscathed, victorious. After a hectic group stage, all eight group winners won in the round of 16. Looking back, seven of eight group winners advanced in 2010, and no one was surprised when Spain hoisted the trophy at tournament's end. Italy were the world's best team in 2006. Brazil had the best collection of talent in 2002, as France did in 1998. So it goes.
Soccer is different from hockey, or baseball, or football, or college basketball, in that it's coldly predictable, for mysterious reasons that no one can really adequately explain. Cinderella doesn't exist in this world—there are no Miracles on Ice, no 1969 New York Mets, no Buster Douglases—and through that specific lens, if you were so inclined, you could call it un-American.
USMNT manager Jürgen Klinsmann understood this, and said as much before the tournament.
"We cannot win this World Cup, because we are not at that level yet," Klinsmann told The New York Times. "For us, we have to play the game of our lives seven times to win the tournament."
It was true. The United States aren't a world soccer superpower, and to make matters worse, they were drawn into the Group of Death, the most difficult in the tournament. Not only that, but their group stage schedule ensured that they'd be traveling farther than any other nation in the tournament, and that they were to play in the steamy, hellish city of Manaus located in the rainforest.
Still, the manager's frankness sparked an outcry all through the country, with the loudest yelps coming from ESPN columnist-cum-talking head Michael Wilbon, who called Klinsmann gutless and told the German to "get out of America." Klinsmann and the USMNT flew to Brazil for the tournament, but did so without Landon Donovan, considered the greatest American soccer player ever. Instead, he brought players like Julian Green, Chris Wondolowski, and Brad Davis. The decision felt cynical. It felt like, before the tournament even kicked off, Klinsmann had already given up. 



It only took one minute into the match against Ghana for everything to change, when captain Clint Dempsey cut from left to right inside the box and slotted a shot off the far post and into the back of the net. We allowed ourselves to hope, even when Ghana threw their might against the U.S. defense, and even after they equalized. The United States game-winner was a header from 21-year-old center back John Brooks, who'd entered the game at the half, and wasn't really expected to play in the tournament at all. His triumph was a fairytale in miniature, the kind of thing that could almost get you believing in the impossible.
But in the first half of the match, the Americans had lost starting striker Jozy Altidore to a hamstring injury. He'd miss the rest of the tournament. Altidore is not a particularly good player, and in any case, he'd just come off a comically bad year for English club Sunderland, where he tallied just one goal and an assist in 31 appearances. Still, he is one of the USMNT's best players, and the loss of his physical presence and ability to hold up play meant that Klinsmann and the USMNT would have to completely change their tactics for the duration of the tournament, so that at times they looked like something out of an archaic black-and-white film of England in the 1950s.
If this was the death knell, the Americans didn't realize it. Without Altidore, the USMNT traveled to Manaus for a match against Portugal and Cristiano Ronaldo. The Americans played the game of their lives in the rainforest against the No. 4 team in the world. They outplayed the Portuguese. They drew.
Next, they faced tournament favorites Germany in a stadium in a city flooded from rain, and once more we allowed ourselves to hope. The Germans destroyed the United States, but broke through only once, and even though they lost, the USMNT had done the improbable and—with an assist from Portugal—advanced to the knockout stages, where Belgium awaited.
The Belgians, stacked as they were, struggled through the group stage of the tournament, and so again, American fans allowed themselves to hope. Hell, some of us even felt confident.
But fairytale endings in sports are about randomness, which is to say that they're about undeserving teams winning. Belgium were the better team with the better players. The United States were overmatched, but they tried anyway.
More than anything, the Americans fought, out of pride and out of fear and out of hope. Old, makeshift left back DaMarcus Beasley was ferocious. Michael Bradley, who'd been conspicuously absent for a majority of the tournament, was everywhere. When Fabian Johnson couldn't continue after pulling his hamstring, speedy 19-year-old DeAndre Yedlin entered at right back and looked a constant threat until the final whistle.
They were demolished.
The Americans almost conceded a goal 40 seconds into the match, but Belgium were denied by Tim Howard, who, in his greatest and maybe final performance on the national team, would have to make 15 more saves throughout the game, the most of any keeper in 50 years. Belgium finished the match with 39 shots, the fourth-highest since 1966. These were hockey numbers.



After 90 minutes, though, somehow the game was tied. Then, 30 seconds before overtime, American poacher Chris Wondolowski found himself free, six yards from goal, with a chance to put the Americans through. He missed.
Belgian forward Romelu Lukaku was introduced in the first minute of overtime, and two minutes later, he created a Kevin De Bruyne goal. In the 105th minute, Lukaku scored. It was over. American fans began to mourn.
The national team, however, didn't. Klinsmann introduced Julian Green, America's latest crowned savior, after the goal. In the 107th minute, Green sliced into the box from the left, and on his first touch, Green volleyed a chipped Bradley pass into the net. This, too, was a fairytale in miniature. Americans everywhere gasped. Again, we hoped.
In the second half of overtime, the United States dominated the Belgians. Seven of the USMNT's 17 shots came in the last 15 minutes. Six minutes before time, the Americans executed a perfect set piece that found Clint Dempsey in on goal, six yards out. He missed. Then the final whistle blew, and Belgium emerged the deserved winners.
Through a specific, objective lens, it would have been a travesty, an affront to the game itself, if the United States had won. And this is what Klinsmann was talking about before the tournament. His message has never been that this country can't win—it's that it can't yet, because it hasn't earned it and because there are no shortcuts. The Americans were doomed by history and by the nature of the game before they ever touched down, destined to be trumped by teams that looked at soccer as religion, to teams that prepared for decades to win this very tournament, to teams that deserved it more.
And through this specific lens, we can truly appreciate the beauty of the USMNT's World Cup. Klinsmann spoke about the tournament as if the die was already cast because it was. In the end, the Americans won, then drew, then lost twice. They were an also-ran, completely mediocre, ousted before the tournament truly began in earnest, and will be forgotten to almost all in a few years' time.
They weren't close to winning the World Cup, just as they won't be in 2018, or in 2022. Because their death was always certain, though, what mattered wasn't what happened, but how. It would've been no great shame or surprise if they'd given way to nihilism, but even though the Americans only briefly played well, they still fought valiantly, against the very nature of soccer itself, until they were cut down by an overwhelming foe and carried out on their shields.
We knew how it would end, and still we applauded. They couldn't have done any better, or any more.


Windows Phone 8.1 Update Coming Soon

               Windows Phone 8.1 Update Coming Soon

 

Windows Phone users can rejoice, as you are going to have your hands on the new update very shortly. Microsoft has leaked that they plan to release the new 8.1 update within the first two weeks of July to select (most) 7.0 and 8.0 users. Of course, this may not mean you will be getting it since most users will have to wait until their ISP releases their own version of it. Until then, all developer unlocked phones will be able to take advantage of the update (or in most cases have already been using it).
The new update comes packed with a lot of the features requested on Microsoft’s voice/vote website, including the ability to search your text messages, more tiles space, a notification center, app folder feature, new store design, automatic app updates (optional), updates to calendar app – camera – bing – browser and more, file manager and so much more.
The most noticeable change is the availability of the new voice command/AI “Cortana” from Halo video games, which will act as your personal assistance across multiple devices (eventually), including phones, tablets, PCs and the Xbox One console.
So many wanted changes will be provided with the new update, and users across the world have been waiting (im)patiently hoping that this will give Windows Phone the shift it needs to compete with its adversaries.
Hopefully the ISPs won’t drag their feet too long before allowing the update to their customers. AT&T in particular has been known for doing this in the past.

T-Mobile Sony Xperia T2 Ultra will launch on July 23

                         Sony Xperia T2 Ultra Coming Soon


According to TmoNews, the Sony Xperia T2 Ultra will be coming to T-Mboile on July 23. Great battery life, great design, and great camera, Xperia T2 ultra is definitely the best mid range phablet in the market..I like this phone, cheap and good. Of course, cannot compare to high end flagship.

Sony Xperia T2 Ultra Specs:
- 6-inch Triluminos screen with 720×1280 pixel resolution.
- quad-core 1.4GHz Qualcomm Snapdragon 400 processor
- 1GB of RAM
- 8GB storage with microSD
- 13-megapixel camera, F2.4;
- NFC
- 3000 mAh embedded battery
- Available in white, black, and purple
- Size: 165.2 x 83.8 x 7.65 mm, 171g
- Android 4.4.2 Kitkat
Sony website confirmed T2 ultra and many others going to get Kitkat on July mid week.













Tuesday 1 July 2014

Google Aims to Defrag Android Universe

Google is taking a different tack with Android for things other than smartphones. "Instead of trying to tackle fragmentation after the fact, ... they're trying to get ahead of it and trying to prevent fragmentation from happening," said Lookout Mobile Security's Marc Rogers. "We have millions of smartphones, and we're anticipating 10 billion things. You can imagine the scale of the problem."

 

As any Android user knows, the version of the operating system you're using can vary widely because it depends on parties other than Google. That's why nearly two-thirds of users are running a version of Android introduced in 2012 or earlier.
With Android making the leap to wearables and the Internet of Things (IoT), however, Google is aiming to make that kind of fragmentation of its mobile operating system a thing of the past. It plans to limit what a hardware maker can do to the Android interface and control updates to the operating system.
"I think Google has discovered that an open operating system is nice to get a lot of units deployed, but it doesn't necessarily provide a consistent user experience," Yankee Group Vice President Carl.

"They could have chosen to exercise more control when they started," he added. "They chose not to. If they had, they might not have gotten the rate of adoption they got."
Google did not respond to our request to comment for this story.


Bold Move

The move toward greater control over Android in wearables, autos and TVs makes sense, said Ross Rubin, principal analyst with Reticle Research.
With smartphones, people typically are wedded to one device, but a person may have multiple watches and TVs.
"Google wants to enforce more consistency across different devices from different brands, which is less important in the smartphone market," Rubin told Haqk.blogspot.com.
"It's also an opportunity for Google to address industry criticism about difficulties in upgrading to new versions of Android," he added.
Times have changed since Google was an upstart in a market dominated by Apple.
"Google may feel emboldened to do this at this point, because it feels the polish and functionality of its user interface is such that it can deliver a good, consistent user experience in these products," Rubin said.
If what Google is doing on the IoT side of Android catches on among consumers, it could influence the smartphone side of the operating system as well.
"If initiatives like TVs and smartwatches take off, consumers will want more consistency between those products and their phones, so Google will have more negotiating leverage to insist on cleaner software interfaces from their phone partners."

Getting Ahead of the Curve

Choosing to exercise control over Android now, as it enters the IoT market, as opposed to later is a smart move, contended Marc Rogers, a principal security researcher at Lookout Mobile Security.
"Instead of trying to tackle fragmentation after the fact, as they did with the smartphone industry, they're trying to get ahead of it and trying to prevent fragmentation from happening with things," Rogers told Haqk.blogspot.com.
"We have millions of smartphones, and we're anticipating 10 billion things," he continued. "You can imagine the scale of the problem with an exponential increase in manufacturers all modifying Google's code."
Google's tightening the reins on Android for things will reduce the kind of variety found in the smartphone market, but that's not necessarily a bad thing, he noted.
"From a security perspective, less variability and predictability is a good thing," Rogers said. "The less manufacturers have to tweak and code themselves, the less of a headache Google has managing security."

Security Problems

Fragmentation often is viewed as a contributor to Android's security problems.
"When a vulnerability is discovered, the ability to get a patch or move to the latest upgrade isn't in the hands of Google; it's in the hands of the hardware vendor," noted Michael Sutton, vice president of security research at Zscaler.
"We've seen many situations over time where some vulnerability is discovered, and end users end up waiting for -- or in some cases never get -- a patch that they need, because it has to be blessed by the hardware vendor," he told Haqk.blogspot.com.
By the same token, as Google improves the security of Android over time, many users can't take advantage of those advances because they're not allowed to upgrade their versions of the OS.
"If you can't upgrade to that latest edition, you can't benefit from those improvements," Sutton said.
Reducing or even eliminating fragmentation won't end Android's security problems, however.
"I still consider Android less secure than other operating systems -- even if it's the latest version," NSS Labs Practice Manager Chris Morales told Haqk.blogspot.com
"There tend to be more flaws with Android than in Windows Phone or iOS," he said.
"I don't know, though, if that's because it's targeted more often or it actually has more issues," he added. "A lot of times more flaws are found because a platform has lots of users."

Tariq Jameel Bayan

Thursday 22 May 2014

ebay user database





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Friday 17 January 2014

A new way to earn money

A new way to earn money

(By: Mohammad Yaseen)
This article will define that how the social media has opened the ways of earning.
Now a days because of the social media the world has come close together. Facebook twitter Hotmail etc. are the things that have sum up the entire world into a close box.
These things not only did this but because of this people use to earn money…,interestingisn’t..!!! but it’s the truth…that’s how I earn…,

We all are fully aware of the Facebook which have got id’s pages groups in it. Different pages different id’s groups a perfect database a Facebook is…but have u ever think of earning from Facebook..???? it is true and you cans say it is easy to.. just you need time and time. How I earn….
I’m admin of about 4 to 5 pages which have about 4000 or 5000 likes per page. Means 25000 likes on my 5 Facebook pages. Being and admin of the pages doesn’t give me anything, at first I use to be happy that I have pages and this much likes..i use to put status and share others people pages and etc. but now I just changed this thing into an earning way. From my original of Facebook I use to inbox other pages admins to ask for likes on their pages. Likes doesn’t do anything it’s just the promotion of your page worldwide because many other diff country people are on Facebook and this creates a sense of promotion of page internationally. So I use to inbox  them and ask that whether u need likes for your page or nt. If they say no then no, and if they say yes then I ask how much likes…, we have set a package of likes like
1.      1000 likes for 400Rs
2.      2000 likes for 800Rs
3.      3000 for 1200Rs and so on.
So then they speak of their need and I post their page link on my pages, on all 5 pages and I ask my follower’s or likers to like this page. They do it and I easily achieve my target. In this way I earn on Facebook and in the end of month I have about 4 to 5 thousand rupees in hand.
Question Is how do I get my rupees..???
We now usually use easy paisa. A thing that transfers your money from one place to another with some diff requirements like nic(national identity) number and code etc. in this way I get my rupees and earn.we have got diff websites also through which we can easily earn money but that websites give less money than this thing. This is illegal work in the mind of Facebook creator so that’s why many times my pages use to get blocked or deleted but I just create new which takes time to get likes but I do and start my process again of earning. Sometimes the customers do not pay me my money means they deceive me so I just put their page link on my page and asked my likers to report this page by giving any sort of reasons and this way I make their pages deleted or blocked from Facebook in simple words “revenge”.

That was all about the thing that I do on social media.

Thursday 16 January 2014

10 Tips You Must Have To Living Your Life On Purpose

10 Tips You Must Have To Living Your Life On Purpose

 

Over the years, I've coached so many people who are desperately seeking their purpose and spending an immense amount of time 'finding' it and putting an immense amount of pressure on themselves to find it (almost like a race against time).
I've also spoken with a large percentage of people who felt that they knew their purpose but felt blocked around bringing it into reality because they feared the change that would ripple out, or they didn't feel they were worthy of having a purpose-filled life that they loved.
Can you relate to either of these scenarios?
If so, I'd love to share with you the 10 tips to keep in mind as you strive to live your life on purpose:
1. Notice the problems that you feel compelled to fix - there's a reason that you noticed the issue. Years ago, I met a man on a 5hr flight back home and got to hear (in great detail)about his passion for duck conservation. I was fascinated by his passion for all things duck-related and his matching duck attire to boot (I'm not kidding).
I was also struck by the fact that he was inspired to notice the issue facing ducks, while I was not. Why was I unaware of the serious situation facing the future of ducks? Well, because, it is not my purpose - it is his! I notice what I notice, and that is my purpose to participate, 'solve', or whatever the 'noticing's' are inspiring me to do.
I share this example because I hope it will inspire you to a) release the feeling that you need to be involved in everything and are perhaps even worried that you're missing out (trust me, you're not), and b) to note what you notice and then do something with that awareness.
2. Who do you admire? What is it about how they live their journey that resonates with you? There are so many keys to your own purpose in noticing this. It may be the way in which they live or the actual things they participate in - both hold keys to the insight you are meant to glean from why they (of all of the 7 billion people on the planet) light up for you!-)
3. Notice the one issue in your life that you most struggle with no matter how you tackle it (weight loss, relationships issues, etc). You're gaining valuable wisdom that is helping you grow as a person, but which also needs to be shared with others. We create these issues for wisdom but also for connection. Think of all of the amazing people that you've met and the experiences that you've had that likely never would have occurred had it not been for this 'issue!'
Be grateful for that and treat the issue like your classroom to cultivate wisdom (rather than judging yourself for still spinning in it or not moving forward). Make sense?
4. Release the (un)conscious need to make 'finding' your purpose your purpose! When unclear on your purpose (or the next steps on it), just be YOU as you will call experiences to you that only you can attract. These experiences then turn into wisdom that help to cultivate the understanding of your purpose.
Remember: you are here to answer the 1 question that no one else, but you, can answer... and share the 1 gift that only you can share. Being YOU in the question and the gift - enJOY the ride!-)
5. Keep the train moving while you are waiting for the answers! Don't allow 'finding' your purpose to put the brakes on your life or be an energy of distraction. Your primary purpose is to BE - plain and simple. When you are BE-ing, the infinite creative life force moves through you and touches everyone and everything that it needs to touch/transform by moving through you as a vessel for that light. In this perspective, can you see how profound your purpose already is (even without the full knowledge of your unique contribution?-)
6. Clear the blocks that keep you from living your purpose! What would happen if you were actually living life full out with no excuses - what would you attract, who would you meet, what would you create?
Often people are afraid of gaining clarity on their purpose because they fear who they are going to lose, the responsibility they associate with their purpose, or of being alone and unsupported (to list a few examples).
I want to invite you to give thought to who you need to become to be the person that lives their purpose with ease and joy - what do you need to release and what do you need to call in to live a fulfilling purpose sans excuses?
7. Ask your higher self to show you the how! It's not your job to know the how - you take care of being and the universe takes care of the how - are you willing to allow it to be that simple?-)
8. Be present! When you are grounded and embodied in the vessel that allows you to move through life and live on purpose, you can then be in-tune to what is coming into your awareness, you can notice what you notice, you can allow the universe to move through you as you BE!
Your purpose is not in the past (it has already gone) and is not in your future (it has yet to arrive) - it's in the here and now!
9. Be purposeful about everything that you say and do! You may not be clear on your purpose (or feel safe and supported enough to live it) but by activating the vibration of purpose and infusing it into your words, actions, relationships and more, you then allow purposeful living to become a purpose-filled life. By building this muscle it will naturally evolve into illuminating awareness of your ultimate purpose.
10. Surround yourself with inspiration and support! You need fuel to keep going as living a purpose-filled life is a lifetime journey. Create daily rituals, immerse yourself in inspirational teachings to keep your vibration high, and create a circle of support to hold you accountable to your goals, celebrate your wins and inspire you to keep dreaming and creating!

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/8242895

Self-Improvement: The Basics

Self-Improvement: The Basics



I recently had a very wise junior high school client tell me that she greatly enjoys helping her fellow students with their math. She went on to explain that if you do not understand basic math concepts you will not be able to move on to learn the more difficult ones. Unlike Social Studies or Science in which you study a number of different topics that can be totally unrelated, math requires that you have a good grasp of the foundational concepts and then build on them.
Life is like that. Sometimes people wonder why they are having problems and don't understand that there are a few basic foundational concepts that, when learned and practiced, will help them to do well.
  1. Always tell the truth - When you make a habit of lying you need to have a really good memory. If you can't remember the lies you will trip yourself up and reach a point where others won't trust you.
  2. Spend less than you earn - If your lifestyle exceeds your income, it won't take long until that will catch up to you. Living on credit means that you will not only owe what you borrowed or put on plastic but also the interest that accumulates over time.
  3. Become an avid reader- When you read, you gain knowledge and become more interesting. You can learn to do or fix anything from the contents found in books and will not be as needy for others because reading is an excellent form of entertainment.
  4. Work hard - There isn't any better medicine in life than being able to work. A job or project gives you a reason to get up and get dressed in the morning. It allows you to interact with others, feel valued and sleep well. It also gives you some coins to jingle and use to buy your needs.
  5. Value cleanliness - My Norwegian grandmother used to say "Anyone can follow a recipe but not everyone is clean". Make sure that your body and clothes are clean as well as your environment. These things will increase your self-esteem, help you to stay healthy, facilitate productivity and allow others to feel comfortable when they are with you.
  6. Respect people and do what you promise- Every person on earth has value and deserves to be respected even if they have done something that seems totally inappropriate or unacceptable. You will gain respect and increase your own self-respect when you are first of all able to give it to others.
  7. Be on Time - Everyone is busy and that is not an excuse to be late. Airplanes won't wait for you, Income Tax will penalize you and people will think less of you if you are someone who doesn't arrive on time or meet the specified deadlines. You see being late is a form of rudeness that implies the other person's time isn't important. On the other hand, being on time, or even a few minutes early, is less stressful and also shows your commitment and respect to those who are involving or watching.
It doesn't matter if you are a child, adolescent, adult or senior. You can be a student, homemaker, employee, entrepreneur or retiree. Your culture, geographic location and health situation are irrelevant. If you follow the above concepts, regardless of your status or situation, you will enhance your life and gain the esteem of others.
And if there is one or more concepts that you have not practiced in the past, that's okay. You can just begin today and see the blessings that will bring!

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/8247419

Boundaries: Why Do Some People Blame Others For How They Feel?

Boundaries: Why Do Some People Blame Others For How They Feel?

When one takes responsibility for how they feel, they are going to be seen as mature and self aware. And yet when one doesn't take responsibility for how they feel in the majority of cases, they are likely to be seen as lacking awareness and being undeveloped.
But while an outside observer can label them in this way and see their outlook as being self evident, to the person who doesn't take responsibility for how they feel, they are likely to feel that they are in the right.
And should another person say that other people are not responsible for how they feel, they are likely to be met with resistance and denial. So it won't matter if others are giving them feedback about this or not, as it is unlikely to be accepted.
Absolute
To say that one is in complete control of how they feel is probably going a bit far. No one is their own island and one is therefore going to be affected by what is happening around them.
This is part of life and unless one becomes emotionally numb, this is something one is going to have to accept. However, there is a big difference between being affected by certain things that other people do and being affected by just about everything they do.
Empathy
Part of being human means that one has the potential for experience empathy. The word potential was used because not everyone on this planet has empathy, and there can be many reasons for this.
But with those reasons aside, having empathy means that one is going to feel things as a result of what other people do. This will be something that happens automatically and without one needing to think about whether they should feel or not.
The Exception
One is therefore not in control of how they feel when it comes to matters of the heart or when another person is suffering. And this ability is vital, as it allows human beings to support one another, to put an end to needless suffering and stand up for them, amongst other things.
Without this, another person is more likely to be seen as an enemy than a friend. And instead of seeing another person as an individual that has their own reality and feelings, they are going to be seen as someone that one can use for their own gain.
Feelings
Even though empathy is automatic and out of ones conscious control, it is not something that is completely out of their control. And the same could be said about the rest of the feelings that they have.
This is because even if it doesn't have anything to do with empathy, one can still feel as though they have no control over how they feel. Another person could feel amazed at how this person blames others for their feelings and this person can have all the reasons under the sun as to why another person is responsible. They might not actually know that this is not the case.
Boundaries
And the primary reason, as to why one will believe that other people are in control of how they feel, will be the result of them not having boundaries. These allow one to realise that they are not only physically separate, but also emotionally separate.
It is then not that another person can actually define how one feels, but that one has not been able to form healthy boundaries. The reason they feel as they do in a lot of cases, is due to their interpretation of what another person does and not the act itself.
An Example
This is generally made clear by two people who are in the same situation when something doesn't go to plan; one becomes angry and feels let down and another feels at ease and is able to let go. Both of them are in the same environment, but what is different, is how their minds are interpreting what is taking place
Or two people could be around someone who has a certain type of humour. One person just laughs and lets it go past them, whereas the other feels humiliated and ashamed.
The Difference
This means that some people realise that they are separate from others and have boundaries. While other people don't know this and are wide open to what others say. It's like one person feels protected and the other person doesn't.
And the reason as to why they feel this way is likely to go back to their childhood years. What happened here is going to play a big role in whether one has boundaries or not.
Childhood
When one was a baby, they would have felt that there was no separation between them and their caregiver. Boundaries wouldn't have formed yet and this allowed one to feel a sense of power and that they were safe and protected.
After a while, one would have had the urge to break away from their caregiver and to experience being separate. This is when one would have developed boundaries and realised that they were separate from others. One would have started to develop their own identity during this stage.
The Psychological Birth
Breaking away is often described as the psychological birth. But while it is vital that this happens in order for one to become an individual and to form boundaries, it doesn't always occur. And this means that one will physically grow up and yet their emotional development will end up being stifled.
So as one feels enmeshed to others, it is not much of a surprise that they are going to blame them for how they feel; if anything, it is to be expected. Their emotional development will define how they feel and this is what will feel right.
Without boundaries, one is going to be unable to own their emotional experiences and to contain them. And this means they will have to go somewhere; with that somewhere being onto other people
Awareness
If one wants to take reasonability for how they feel, then they will have some emotional work to do. One reason why they no emotional control could be due to them having trapped emotions in their body.
As these are released, one will begin to see that they are separate from others. This will then lead to boundaries being formed. The assistance of a therapist or a healer may be required.
Prolific writer, thought leader and coach, Oliver JR Cooper hails from the United Kingdom. His insightful commentary and analysis covers all aspects of human transformation; love, partnership, self-love, and inner awareness. With several hundred in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behavior, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice. Current projects include "A Dialogue With The Heart" and "Communication Made Easy."

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7 Reasons Why Being the Best Is Not Good Enough


7 Reasons Why Being the Best Is Not Good Enough


1 - Not the way of the best.
If you set out to be the best, you may end up among the top performers - but believe me, you most likely would not be the best. By the simple logic that "a man's reach should exceed his grasp" those who end up as the best often set out with a different objective. They hardly tell you that their aim was to be the ultimate "whatever" - and they prepared themselves accordingly. They only found themselves being labelled the best at the finish line when all their rivals were lost in the dust.
#2 - Change is unchanging.
All things in life change but change itself. A static condition does not exist in the universe - all things are becoming something else. When a condition appears static it is only because its rate of progress is equal to its rate of deterioration. So if you stop aspiring and relax because you are the best, you actually start regressing and would be in for a rude surprise at your next outing - when you may not even be among the top performers.
#3 - Pulling your punches.
If you think that being the best is good enough you may tend to tailor your efforts towards being just a little better than your perceived rivals. You may adopt a strategy similar to theirs rather than tasking your creativity to come up with something innovative. So even if you do come out as the best, you would not have stretched to bring out your best. Personal growth only occurs when we stretch our limits.
#4 - Your gift to the world.
A graver consequence of "pulling your punches" because you think being the best is good enough is that you may actually deprive the world of your own peculiar gift. Who knows, you may be a peculiar genius entrusted by Providence with what it takes to make scientific, artistic, cultural or other breakthroughs that would alleviate human suffering and increase human enjoyment of life. If you are content to be merely the best (rather than the ultimate) you would have frustrated the divine plan - and should be accountable!
Just imagine if Sir Roger Bannister had been content to be the best runner of his day rather than the one who shattered the myth that no man could run a mile in less than four minutes. Wasn't that a victory for the human spirit and an inspiration to many?
#5 - Paradigm shifts.
It is human to strive to overcome obstacles to our happiness and liberty. History has shown that often a so-called paradigm shift (i.e. a profound change in our model or perception of reality) is necessary to surmount major limitations. Thinking that the best available is good enough hardly sustains the kind of curiosity, research and courtship of serendipity that has achieved and continues to beget the fuller, happier life for you and me.
#6 - Victim of history.
What we term "best" may actually be relative to our knowledge of history and current affairs. You may think you are the best because you are only aware of events in your locality or generation. A study of the history of other nations or other periods may reveal that you are far from being the best. So if you would find yourself any small place in history you had better go for broke, rather than rest on a mistaken confidence of prowess, ha ha.
#7 - Use it or lose it.
One last thought that gives the lie to the belief that being the best is good enough is the natural law that what is not exercised atrophies. Unless we constantly aspire to better ourselves mentally, materially and morally we would slowly but inevitable slide into mediocrity and ineptitude.
It is said that the greatest reward of service is the ability to render more service. Therefore, it is our privilege to glorify the creator and improve our world by making the most of our greatest gift of life. For to whom much has been given - from him much is expected.
What is the ultimate approach to excellence? Of what relevance is spirituality in your quest for fulfillment and bliss? John D'Silva's  offers insights that would surprise and refresh you. John is happily devoted to helping You unleash Your Spirit of Excellence. Intelligence directs the universe, not chance.

 

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